There are things that are meant to be voice out. Everyone is imperfect right? We all; no age limits, no thoughts like 'I'm older, I'm wiser enough', literally EVERYONE are still learning how to become a better human being in this world and someway or another; we make mistakes ALL THE TIME even myself to be truthfully honest and i bet we all regret what we say or do sometimes too.
There are things that we should learn to forgive others even if it makes one feel really disappointed. We get upset and down even if it's just a fight but what I did learn about life is that we have to learn how to be calm and forgive even if it's our fault; we have to learn how to forgive ourselves and also to others most importantly.
There are things that we have to learn how to put ourselves in other people's shoes. Basically it means we have to try to understand other's situation. Look on the bright side instead of looking the darker side. You'll feel better and you'll definitely have more 'comrades' with you when you're a person who understands their situation the most as you try your best to find the good in them instead of trying so hard to find the bad in them.
Also, there are things that we should not judge people on easily. Whether it's because of the statement they mentioned or because of the stories they've posted on snapchats and Instagram stories; that doesn't define them. Not all people who have thousands of friends are those who doesn't feels lonely; not all people who doesn't smile are rude. Most of all, not all people who smiles all the time have no worries too. ;)
That's what I've learned throughout my first year in university and the people I hang around with and not forgetting some lecturers. You meet different people and you may either get backstabbed or get rewarded by someone whom you'll never expect in your whole life. I believe we all are different and we have different opinions about our ownself and even others. That's what makes us special right? As a student and a youth myself, I am trying to change too and changing is not a bad thing; it just gives you nervousness but soon it'll be alright, trust me. ;) God made us with different facial features, personalities and talents and we as sinners should learn how to voice out the positivity, forgive and love others no matter how much you dislike them as well as understanding and accepting other's differences and beliefs and not forgetting - the flaws. ;)
Sincerely, Shannon.